<p>alwaysamom: I’ve missed you. Yes, your generosity is commendable and your attitude is perfect.</p>
<p>My feelings, exactly. Let’s bring more, not less, under the umbrella. And to me that means more kids getting to be a places they really want to be, not last resorts.</p>
<p>Sometimes the Puritan legacy in the US causes us to believe that being forced to sacrifice is, in itself, a good thing.</p>
<p>I don’t agree. If a sacrifice is necessary, then yes, it must be made. But so much nicer when it doesn’t have to be made.</p>