@minion15 Ahh yes, I’m familiar with how hard it can be to find a summer job sometimes, specially in small towns lol. Did you call UR and ask them if they can throw in some extra aid for this year? Tell them you’re willing to put in your savings, and explain how you tried getting a job but couldn’t, and they might just meet you halfway. I really hope you can attend this year. You sound like a great kid and a good fit for UR. As for personal expenses through out the year, you should be able to get a work-study job pretty easily to cover for those; just pay attention to app deadlines and recruiting events at the beginning of school.
By the way, I know it must be hard for you to see your sister struggle, but please don’t let this hold you back from attending your own school. You are so close, and as long as your parents aren’t paying for your college, her financials shouldn’t mingle with yours. This may sound a bit harsh, but I’d hate to see you miss out on this great opportunity. There are many ways you can be supportive without forgoing your own studies.