10-30% is selective. No moderately selective there.
You can go to med school from anywhere. But you have to be top shelf.
Can you manage the academics and athletics ? Can you be happy where you’d end up, Ivy or otherwise ? Not happy likely means you don’t do as well.
You will be somewhere four years, day after day.
Mom will be too but at home, not on campus.
It’s their money but your experience.
Tons of kids purposely choose lower ranked schools over high ranked schools. If you make the choice and bust tail in life, then you’ll be successful.
One last thing - athletes don’t always make it 4 years. So pick a school you’ll like, regardless of if you’re on a team.
Good luck.