Getting aid with an income over $100,000 a year will depend on the school. Some will give you aid… many won’t. Have you used the net price calculators for the schools you are applying to? What schools do you have in mind? Do you have affordable options?
Filling out the FAFSA will allow you to take out the federal loan of $5500. Filling out the CSS profile … and not leaving blank spaces… will allow you to receive institutional aid… IF you qualify for it based on that particular school.
My advice is to fill out all of the the forms … entirely… not lots of blank spaces… if you are interested in getting financial aid, but keep in mind that getting it will depend on the individual school- use the NPC. My next piece of advice is to have schools on the list that will be affordable to your family without any need based aid at all.