CC is a great resource to learn the basics of applying to college and getting any questions answered, but you just have to learn to not worry about everyone with their impressive resumes. I’d be willing to bet some people exaggerate their stats, and at any rate, this is a very small percentage of those applying to college–less than 1%, probably. It can definitely be overwhelming seeing everyone on here who’s seemingly perfect, but you just have to remember that this is not representative of the entire nation.
Start from the ground up. Build a list of safeties that you really like and go from there. You might end up liking a safety school more than your reaches, you never know.