The only way you’ll never get to college is if you never apply. Admissions officers will see how hard you’ve worked these past two years! Don’t burden yourself too much, especially with your job, many ECs, and rigorous course. There is a difference between giving your all and burning out.
Take my sister and father. She took 6 APs, no sports, only academic clubs, and she got into UGA-a top 100.
My dad went to Post University (not even ranked!), transferred to New Haven, worked thru school, and now he’s making $100k a year (thank God).
You can always transfer, of course, and once you leave college it really doesn’t matter where you’ve gone. Things like caring about what you, having strong communication skills, and being competent - you seem like all of those things.
Don’t be disheartened. It’ll all work out, I swear. >:D<