should i take time off from school for my ill family member?

<p>This is a very difficult time for your family and my sympathy is with you.</p>

<p>I have a differing view – as a Mom I would prefer that you remain at school if you indeed would be home as much as your schedule will allow. It really depends on your relationship with your parents. I am very private and would prefer some alone time with my husband rather than having my son around 24/7. It is different with your sibling who continues to go to work.</p>

<p>I have dealt with cancer in extended family, In my personal experience it is the healthy partner (your mom) whose needs are paramount. Home nursing, etc. cares for the patient but often it is the healthy partner who is not being looked after enough.</p>

<p>Also, I must point out, staying at school and being home as much as possible will not provide a social outlet. I really think your social life should be put on hold for now.</p>