Are you planning on camping out at the high school?
Okay, Ive read through all of these posts and the advice that has been given has been for the benefit of your child.
My children were accepted to Top 20 Schools. Our son attended a Top 10. They all took the prescribed high school courses.
What you need to realize is that other parents, on this web site, have children who have had advanced courses in middle school and have been through the admissions process to get into elites. They are giving you the best advice.
My son also had middle school courses that would have counted for high school credit, but it was at the option of the high school to give the credit for progression.
A majority of the time, those courses won’t show up on the HS transcript. What the high school receives is level of progress. So even though you have 3 math, it may just show up as the “last level for ‘high school level equivalent’”. Why would the HS give you 3 years of graduation credit for courses that WERE NOT taken at their school?
The person at our high school who was supposed to be Valedictorian, “Kevin” ended up having to go to summer school. His mother was so busy futzing around and micromanaging his schedule, that they missed a core class that she intended to have him take at the CC but “forgot”.
He was rescinded by all of his top 10s. We found out was because the Principal met with and told our son that DS had been bumped up to Salutatorian. (There were 5 kids within tenths of Valedictorian status.) Our son was shocked because “Kevin” his friend and teammate no longer had the graduation requirement to graduate from his HS.
I was on-staff at the high school, but I also was a sports team parent for my kids’ teams. Kevin’s mother came screaming at me: “Why didn’t you tell me that my kid needed to meet graduation requirements!!! Isn’t your son doing the same schedule as my son???”
I told her, “I am not a guidance counselor. I have no idea about your son’s schedule. My children are responsible for meeting with their guidance counselors and I don’t know anything about their schedules unless they tell me. I do have a great relationship will all of their teachers.”
I was a team parent, but I never assumed that I would be including myself in their school lives because they are the ones taking the courses and it is their life. I wanted my kids to slowly learn how to be good students and independent adults.
“Kevin” had already put down his housing deposit for Princeton. I suggested that they could have him start at the local CC and then transfer. The parent wanted nothing to do with a CC. He wanted to go to the CC, but his parents wouldn’t allow him to go. Eventually, after a year, I spoke to our son and “suggested” that Kevin use the year as a “gap” and save money by working and then reapplying. He did reapply but didn’t get the same result, and thankfully, applied to the local UC, and got in.
You do you. I’m trying to save you some grief.
If the web sites say 4 years, they really mean 4 years. Even if it says, “recommended”, they mean what they write in the admissions section. Middle school grades are fluff to get to the next level. At some point, your child may want to exhibit his independence and may choose to take something that isn’t in the “we” plan. You need to be ready for it because you cannot attend college with him.