<p>Equality is important but impossible. All our kids are different from each other and we treat them farily and we do our best to also give them all the emotional stability and support they need. Economical equailty is important on the surface but again impossible. S1 goes to Caltech, S2 to Yale and D is planning on a community college for nursing. How can there be economic equality; $60,000 for S’s and $7500 for D. We are struggling with this as a family right now. </p>
<p>I don’t want my kids to feel as I do, I moved out and paid for my own college completely and 2 younger sibs my parents paid. To this day feel a little cheated. Don’t wanmt my kids to feel that way.</p>