<p>Equal opportunity but not equal reward. So…let’s say 2 kids…one barely graduates high school and the other is the valedictorian. It would be reasonable to pay for college for the valedictorian (within your means) but then tell the one who barely graduated that they must show decent grades at the junior college first. Or…if let’s say, one graduates high school and the other does not…you are not obligated to give the same gift to both…only the graduate gets the gift. See what I am saying? Give both equal chance to achieve something…reward the ones who come through.</p>