<p>Great posts from all of you. Momoftwins and Jamzmom, as usual, your writings touch the heart. All these posts made me realize it’s probably a good idea to think and prepare now for all the changes and look for ways to make this a little easier on the siblings. Navy2010 – I’ll try to avoid those “slips” but I expect logistics will always be an issue. As for Ben’s (the 2010 AF guy) brother and sister – they’re very proud for sure but It’s hard for me to read what’s really going on inside. They don’t seem to have any problems with it at the moment and I certainly don’t want to create one where there isn’t. Still, I see what’s coming and I won’t put my head in the sand. Thanks again for those thoughts. We have some pretty savvy parents on this board!</p>