<p>Wow guys. This thread took a turn and is now one big therapy vent. I had no idea really, that you kids are getting hammered so hard. Guess the pressure stays the same even after you get appointments and the like. And Marm, brothers are just brothers dang it all. They can be so troublesome. Could be a little jealously, could be a little need to grow up some. Maybe since he is in ROTC, he doesn’t want to actually witness first hand what he knows you’re going to have to go through (but you’ll never know that). Hard to say with brothers. They are odd creatures. You could always do what happens in my house… The younger one tells the older one that he wants some respect, tears the cheeto’s bag out of his hands, hits him then runs with it. Seems to settle most of it. The older brother respected him so much that he photo copied his rear pieces and sent it to him during indoc signed “Best Wishes” after I got onto him for not writing. Brotherly love is how you see it in the big scheme of things. It will change down the road & I hope its for the better for you. And that you don’t end up with a brother like ^</p>