So no one can ever make a joke about kidnapping, ever? how about other tragedies - car accidents, fires, etc?
My father freakin’ DROWNED. That doesn’t mean that the world is obligated not to make drowning jokes. My immediate family won’t make those jokes, but I wouldn’t be “offended” if a bakery said “skinny people don’t float as well and are more likely to drown. Be safe, eat our pastries.”