Agree about Wyndham. It’s a great mountain for beginners.
I haven’t skied Hunter in years but never liked it.
Definitely rent until you know your kids are going to like it.
Definitely put your kids in ski school.
Ditto on there being a pool.
If you are going the week of February break all the ski areas will be very crowded.
Jiminy Peak is always crazy crowded on weekends, long weekends and school breaks. Since you are beginners I’d suggest Bousquet if you go to the Berkshires. It’s right next door to JP.
If you want to spend the time and money, I highly recommend Mt. Snow. We love it there. So much fun, great terrain for boarders and skiers, fun tubing run, wonderful ski resort vibe. Wilmington is cute with some good shops and restaurants, Dover offers plenty of places to eat. Mt. Snow has the best boarding parks you’ll see anywhere. Your kids will immediately want to start boarding, so maybe don’t take them there, lol.
I don’t know what to say. So many great suggestions. Believe me folks. College Confidential is the best site for parents. All of you are awesome. I don’t know how to thank each one of you.
If you’re looking at a day trip, Mountain Creek makes the most sense if you’re already in Northern NJ. Weekdays, if you can make that work, are much, much less crowded than weekends.
If you’re looking at a weekend trip, I’d head up to VT. Mt Snow, Okemo, or Sugarbush. The last is the longest drive, but it has a very relaxed atmosphere. Great place to learn to ski.
Coming from the west coast, I fondly remember my first skiing trip when we moved here 15 years ago. We went to Vermont and excitedly boarded the lift. I vividly remember getting off the lift at the top, looking around, and thinking “this is the mountain?” These days, it’s plenty of mountain for me, lol.