<p>HarryJones, what are you talking about? </p>
<p>I didn’t say anything about “feeling masculine”, I just know how us men operate. The only man who wants a girl to ask him out is the man who cant get a girl. I don’t have that problem, maybe you do. </p>
<p>If a girl was to pursue me the same way I pursue a girl that like, then yes, I would see her as desperate. Why? Because that is what I have been accustomed to. Maybe if EVERY girl in the world was to switch roles and pursue us instead, then maybe I would change my mind. But a girl should know that guys make the first move and guys want to be in control. Girls want a guy who is confident and in control. That is why “wussy” men become friend-zoned and aren’t considered potential boyfriends. </p>
<p>Lets speak hypothetically for a second here. Suppose a girl did ask you out Harry and you said yes. Do you expect her to pay for your dinner? Do you expect her to pick you up at 8? Do you expect her to call you and fight for your attention? Would that turn you on? It sure as hell wouldn’t turn me on, and I would never expect a girl to do those things for me. Especially not on a first date. </p>
<p>So if YOU want a girl to ask you out, then post your results if that ever happens to you. I would love to see how this alternate scenario works out. But until then, I definitely don’t want a girl to ask me out. I know I will perceive it as desperate, and I know many more men would too. And that is just the ugly truth.</p>