So my guy pals, how would you want a girl to make the first move?

[hume15]

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its not better if the guy asks, its just awkward and the relationship will be a guaranteed fail if the man cant muster up the nuts to ask the girl out

What if the guy never even thought about a potential relationship but still might be apt to say yes? Is the girl supposed to drop hints until he does?</p>

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I was actually debating this with one my girlfriends today. As much as we say we want a girl to ask, we don’t. Honestly, a girl coming up to me and asking for a date would off to me as desperate.</p>

<p>Girls need to tease a little. Let us think about you when you aren’t around. We need to ask, not you.</p>

<p>Now, it wouldn’t be so bad if you gave us some hints that you liked us. Texting first, calling first, or some verbal hints would be nice. But we need to ask you out first.

Care to explain. I don’t care if that’s “how it’s always been done.”</p>

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i have no problem being asked out by a girl, hell my ex gf asked me out and it was a terrible relationship, which is why i commented in the first place

That doesn’t necessarily indicate broader implications.</p>