<p>Son accepted at oberlin but stayed on waitlist at grinnell, because he hadn’t seen Oberlin yet when he had to make that choice. If he gets into grinnell, which might happen, can anyone offer insight into the differences between the two schools? I loved Oberlin and think it’s a wonderful match for my son, but I can tell he’s a little uneasy about it. Maybe a little nervous or intimidated, I’m not sure. Thoughts? Socially and academically. Interested in math/science, likes music and athletics. A little shy and quiet.</p>