<p>@Fencer123 I would think you’d be happy. My guy (the non-partier) is friends with those who party and some do quite well in their classes (others do not). Some of his friends are also Greek - they invited him to their frat… he declined as he has so much else going on with clubs, dance, intermurals, lab work, etc, but as WayOutWestMom said, the two groups aren’t exclusive.</p>
<p>What he has (recently) told me is that there is little pity for those who skip classes or recitations or study groups due to frequent partying. Don’t expect others to share notes or invite you “in” if you’re in that group - slacking off assuming the others will pick up your share. Otherwise, it’s not a cut throat environment and working together trying for all to succeed is pretty common in his circle. </p>
<p>Environment-wise, it’s pretty much a “live and let live” with choices one makes on whether to party or not (aside from the “slackers”).</p>