I did post where my kids decided to go to college, no mention of merit awards. My youngest are twins, one has always been more academically successful than the other, last year one was on the presidents list both semesters, the other withdrew the first semester. No photos of my daughter with the university president at the celebratory dinner was posted. My oldest graduated summa cum laude but not once mentioned her grades to us, neither did the next one (have no idea what his gpa was). The 3rd’s school sent a deans list letter every semester which I shared with her only.