<p>My daughter and her fiancee have already told us they do not plan to walk at their graduation ceremony next May. It is a big State U - will be a huge number of people, and they have no desire to go. I was a little surprised at first, but don’t have strong enough feelings to make an issue of it. My son did not go to his.</p>
<p>Agree that if someone in the family does have strong feeling then it should at least be discussed.</p>