Sophomore at High school trying to get to YALE

<p>Hi zakkusu,</p>

<p>I’m a mom of a Yale 2012. The real issue isn’t what you should do to get into Yale. My advice to you would be to continue to work hard, play hard, and pursue whatever things truly interest you. For example, community service matters, but not a set number of hours. It would be far better for you to choose a way to contribute in the world that uses your talents and interests best. Please don’t spend the next two years trying to guess what Yale wants. Live your life. If, in the summer before your senior year, you still want Yale (given that you know what Yale is all about!) then apply and see what happens. </p>

<p>But also be on the lookout for schools that aren’t Yale. If you keep your mind open, you may be surprised at the schools that catch your eye. Having watched this year’s applicants to Yale, of course there were some very excited admits, but most students who apply are NOT admitted. This is obvious, but somehow hard to swallow. What this means is that the students who loved Yale, but also allowed themselves to fall in love with other good schools where they met or exceeded the stats of the average accepted student, ended up very happy at the end of the day. Be one of those, and you won’t be staggering around with a dagger in your heart if Yale doesn’t come through for you. </p>

<p>Best wishes and now it’s time to go outside and play!</p>