<p>D attends a traditionally greek school, is in a sorority(not mine) and the book Pledged is not representative of her experience there, nor is it remotely representative of my experience as a member of a Nationally traditionally african american sorority (which I am still active in more than 20 years after graduating). </p>
<p>My best friend is one of my friends from college who was an independent and her being an independent did not hamper our firendship. On most campuses with the exception of a few events, many events are open to the general public so even at a school with a heavy greek presence there is still a lot to do even if you decide not to pledge.</p>
<p>In addition the greek system varies from school to school so what one the reputation of an organization at one school can and most likely will be totally different from the experience of members in the same organization at another campus.</p>
<p>Many NPHC groups have their rush pledge system on a different cycle from the traditional rush/plege week and their process is different. Yes, there is an lot of emphasis on community service because we do a lot of giving back to the communities where we go to school, work and live. My local alumni membership gives thousands of dollars in scholarship money to students each year, we mentor, network, set up internship opportunities, organize college tours and coach and counsel students on the admissions and financial aid process. </p>
<p>Is greek life for everyone? No but that is for you to decide.</p>