So -
I’ll agree with @thumper1 . One needs a budget up front. Why? To save you time and energy.
Radford has a cost of attendance of under $30K.
CU Boulder and I don’t see that they have your major (you might double check) - it’s over $60K.
So why spend your time, energy, and money applying if your parents will say - at $30K, you’re going to Radford - we won’t pay $60K. So it’s not to lecture - but to make your time more efficient - if that makes sense. If they’re ok with CU at $60K, then yes, no discussion to have (other than that school doesn’t appear to have your major).
You have a very impressive background - you’re an entrepreneur, have long term tenure in jobs and are an accomplished cheer leader.
So while normally it’s ok to apply to many schools, given all you have going on - why not apply to schools you have a chance to go to.
So you might have that discussion with your folks now - if Radford is $30K and CU Boulder is $60K+, will you send me to CU Boulder. You can do that with each school.
So - Syracuse has prominent greek life but that can always be overcome. Charleston is very different - small and urban - but if you like that, then it’s great. But it’s different than other schools you mentioned.
So - I will recommend a school I know a student has been very successful in your major. The student works in Chicago. While you might think it’s Southern, if you look on a map, it’s almost midwestern. It’s in a thriving part of the country and it’s a beautiful campus - Arkansas.
Iowa State would be another for you. The campus is supposedly nice and looks like it has nature. It’s highly regarded in the major - shows up in a few lists. Mizzou came up too.
UNC Greensboro is close to home - vs. others.
URI and harder to get to Oregon State are others you that might meet your criteria.
As for your schools - and your SAT isn’t necessarily unhelpful. It’d a positive at Charleston for example - I’d say:
CU might be a reach. C of C would be a match.
PS - other schools mentioned such as Kent State and Marist also made the screen - and you can check the areas to see if they fit.
PS - as you note FIT as possible, how about SUNY Oneonta (has a program with one year at FIT) or even the New School (not sure of their selectivity).
Best of luck to you.