My son started at a similar school (WPI) as a D3 athlete (he rowed crew). He had an amazing experience his freshman year with the crew team, was able to keep his grades high and do well in his classes (he’s a civil and mechanical engineering double major). But he had no time for anything else. He made an offhand comment about how his roommate had gotten all these random t-shirts and he didn’t. I didn’t understand the comment and said I could buy him t-shirts if he didn’t have enough. “No mom, Ryan gets shirts because he can go to all the activities. I miss all the activities because I’m too busy with crew and homework. I do nothing outside of that. I want to experience college and go to the things.”
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So after his first year, he stopped his D3 sport, and picked up a different club sport. He’s still getting the athletic outlet he wants, but the time commitment isn’t as crazy.
If your son wants to play a sport, and that’s really important to him, then RPI may be a great way to achieve that and get a great engineering degree at the same time - they certainly know how to make sports work for engineers, since they have so many. But if he wants to have an active participation in college outside of sports, it’s really hard - with any sport I think - for an engineer to manage it all.
I do think collegiate sports is helpful for future recruiting. But it’s not the only thing. Here’s my son’s activities from the school year - and he kept a 4.0 all three years while double majoring (below). Yes, employers are interested in the varsity rowing, but the manager at his internship last summer was just as interested in the club rugby, and this year’s hiring manager for his summer internship noted that they were particularly interested in how well rounded he was as an asset for the position they needed filled.
Freshman year - Varsity Crew - year round, came in 4th at National Championship, competed at the Henley in London, England; Fraternity member
Sophomore year - Club Rugby, Fall and Spring Seasons; Teaching Assistant in Seminar Course on Engineering and Global Environment - two seven week terms; Fraternity Member, Chair of New Member Recruiting (Fall), Chair of Brotherhood and New Member Fellowship and Activities Planning (Spring); High Power Rocketry Club member; Volunteer Neighborhood Food Pantry (1 hour/week).
Junior year - Club Rugby, Fall and Spring Seasons; Research lab assistant - cement lab; Fraternity Member, Chair of Brotherhood and New Member Fellowship and Activities Planning (Fall); High Power Rocketry Club member; Volunteer Neighborhood Food Pantry (3 hours/week); Term long research project on sustainable agriculture.
So all that say - if he wants to play the sport and wants to go to RPI, great! But if he really thinks he’ll miss the big college experience at one of his other choices, then that’s ok. He can play a club sport or do something else that will also be interesting to employers. He’s got great choices either way and can craft a solid path forward with either option.