<p>Yes this forum is for grownups. I totally agree. And I want every kid who is going through this grueling process, who is trying to find their place to feel secure and (hopefully) happy with their result(s). What isn’t necessary are adults who may or may not have an agenda state as facts things that may or may not be true that can undermine a kid’s happiness or make them feel less worthy.</p>
<p>My kids are great. I do not want someone else’s child reading sniping comments and feel that perhaps they are second or third rate admits. They aren’t.</p>