You are in range for your stats. My ds’s were slightly stronger, but once you are at a certain level, other things come into play more. I think what bodes best for you is your invite to WashU for a scholarship interview. My ds was accepted to WashU (and Stanford), but he was not invited to interview for a scholarship at WashU. I’m not sure what drives the invitations to those since WashU in general is need aware.
So sorry about your dad @baseballfreak43 - that must be really difficult for you.