<p>I was in the same boat last year, and I ended up picking Stanford over Princeton. I won’t attempt to answer all of your questions, since I don’t know much about the experience at Princeton to compare with that at Stanford. </p>
<p>Here’s my rationale when I made my decision: These are 2 top-tier schools, so the difference in prestige, academics, career prospect, research, and alumni network is minuscule. Granted, Princeton might have more of an undergrad focus. However, the way these factors affect your college experience is entirely up to you.</p>
<p>There are other factors with huge impact on your day-to-day experience that you have little control over: weather, collaborative/competitive environment, general student body’s happiness, and level of open-mindedness and acceptance. They become infinitely more important in picking your college. In these respects, I believe Stanford is a better place: lovely California weather, collaborative atmosphere, happier student body (a product of a more laid-back attitude, the weather, and grade inflation), and more accepting environment.</p>
<p>If possible, visit both and decide for yourself. I trust you will make the right decision.</p>