The only thing I’m really looking for in a school is good career opportunities during and after college
Another generic statement - it’s CS.
Now there are a few - Carnegie Melon, MIT, Ga Tech, etc. that might enhance that.
But you can go to name your flagship or private and be fine.
Would urban and greek life enhance this? Not necessarily.
But if you’d be happiest in an urban setting and you want to participate in Greek life and it would make your experience and studies better - than sure.
Stop trying to game - because you will be somewhere four years, day after day after day.
Figure the right school.
My son’s friend is in CS at UTK - had zero issue getting an internship last summer and is headed to an OUSTANDING one in Kansas City this summer.
Find the right school - and while cost isn’t an issue - they range for someone with your stats from $20K to $90K+.
Tell us what you want - and define it clearly - and I want to know what you want - not what you think society wants!!