<p>I apologize in advance if this sounds blunt, but . . .</p>
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<p>It’s good to have that dialog, but it seems like he’s made it pretty clear where his thoughts lie. Maybe you just don’t like the way the dialog is going. It’s his future, it needs to be about what he wants.</p>
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<p>His thinking or yours? And why is it about money? Instead of thinking about “where the money is at”, think about “where his happiness is at”. He’ll enjoy the rest of his life a lot more.</p>