<p>it is nice to feel wanted. i would urge you and your daughter to not confuse how an admissions office may or may not behave with how the school would be once your daughter was there. what the admissions office is or is not doing with respect to admitted students bears little relationship to what a student’s experience is likely to be ike once there. i’m not saying what they are doing is “right” – just that it is not the best basis for judging what your daughter’s 4 years there would be like.</p>