I mean - have you been to Ohio State? It’s ENORMOUS - both in size and population - one of the biggest in the country. It’s huge in to sports, etc - it will have a siable greek community, etc. It’s a great school.
Stony Brook is a regional school that NY is trying to highlight. It’s literally half or less the size population wise. It will have a more local/regional student body, and sports aren’t as huge although still division 1. Ohio State plays Michigan, Penn State, etc. and the world revolves around it.
Stony Brook plays Stonehill, Albany, Monmouth
Depending on what you’re looking for, these schools are not remotely the same. But they are both excellent and will both get you into dental school - as will the others on your list.