<p>“Promiscuous and wanton sex”</p>
<p>My beef with the article (not to mention the student group) is that it sets up a false dichotomy between waiting for marriage and promiscuity. Sex is common at Harvard, but promiscuity is not. The random hookups happen, of course, but that doesn’t mean the kids had sex. The vast majority of the sex I knew about involved committed couples who cared about one another. I had exactly one boyfriend in college and one in law school. I loved them both, and I am still in touch with both (the college bf is now married to someone else). Most of us live in those gray areas between extremes.</p>