<p>uskoolfish–that’s tough on your daughter. </p>
<p>I have noticed that some members of minority groups seem to “have their consciousness raised” when they go to college, and discover some members of their group have been “oppressed” or discriminated against, even if it has never happened to them personally…so for a while they go to the other extreme and become very proud of their ethnicity, join a political group or club, maybe an all-black fraternity, etc. It’s part of finding out who they are.</p>
<p>I would guess at some point they reach a middle ground and act normal again. I would hope.</p>