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<p>LTS, there are several pages of BCBG dresses on bluefly.com (but not either of the ones linked above!) I’m sure the ones on bluefly or at the outlets are last year’s line, so I’m hoping you don’t see the one you bought. Was it the short one or the long? The short one seems to fit your description better. bluefly is great - I’ve used it before.</p>

<p>Epistrophy, I have two sons as well, and also suffer from dress-buying envy. Maybe all we mothers of sons should chip in and buy a dress for LTS’ daughter? </p>

<p>Like someone else posted, I’m happy that this thread has descended (ascended?) into frivolty.</p>

<p>We have discovered ebay Express which allows D her love of “brand” items at a fraction of the cost. Recently we found Red Engine jeans ($140.00) for $25.00. Of course, we had to buy two pairs.</p>

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<p>OK, as the parent of one of each gender, I have to say that there are 2 sides to the clothes-buying issue. When my son got his Washington DC internship, he needed new clothes, but it was easy to figure out what to buy and get him fitted. No traipsing around from one store to another – went to Jos. A. Bank’s, got his measurements, picked a couple of very nice, dark suits on sale; then he picked up a third one at an even deeper discount off of a Macy’s rack. With his measurements in hand, it was easy for me to pick up extra dress shirts & of course there wasn’t too much agony over ties. And no one really cares if the suit pants fit just right (see below) – the stores all have tailors to fix that up. </p>

<p>Meanwhile, for my d’s internship this summer, we spent hours braving crowds in downtown Manhattan- it was not fun and it was near impossible to find clothes to fit. If you’ve never stood in a dressing room with a young woman who wears size 2 and yet still won’t buy a pair of dress slacks because they she thinks they make her butt look fat… well, then you’ve never had a daughter! Plus… as much pleasure as it gives LTS and me as well to see the delight in our daughters’ eyes… somehow it always ends up that the “perfect” dress or pair of shoes ends up being the most expensive in the store. Oh yes, and this whole concept of shoes needing to match the dress starts to run up too. </p>

<p>So when it comes down to it… shopping with my son is easier, though I must say that my d. certainly enjoys the process more.</p>

<p>Boys usually are easier, unless they will only wear a certain something. My son refuses to wear any other undershirt other that the Nautica brand as all the others “feel funny.” No problem you think, until you know that this undershirt is not available just anywhere. I do have luck finding them at TJ Maxx and Marshall’s, but have to run around to each one in my city to find enough to replace the grungy ones. I have 7 packages stockpiled for when he next needs new ones which will most likely be by the end of the summer. I just hope he does decide he doesn’t like this anymore!!</p>

<p>I try not to shop with my daughter anymore; I always get in trouble when she inquires, “Do you like this on me?” This question is equal to a wife asking a husband if a dress makes her look fat; I am not going there anymore! My daughter has learned to shop with her friends; their opinion is the one she wants anyway.</p>

<p>LTS…a belated happy birthday! It sounds quite glorious…very positive news from your docs…a gift that is priceless. Then, I know what you mean about the great joy of getting your D the dress and she won’t get how that really means a lot to YOU until she is a mom but I know you feel great about it. And when she wears it in the future, she’ll have a special feeling knowing you splurged on it for her. </p>

<p>Here’s to more wonderful birthdays!</p>

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<p>LTS Belated Happy Birthday!! and with all the positive news, I am overjoyed for you and your daughter.</p>

<p>The dress is gorgeous!! I think I missed the shoe description?</p>

<p>As far as those having dress buying envy for daughters, I have a 17 year old looking for a prom dress… and right now I would be happy to loan her out!! The 3 boys are much easier, " whatever you want mom," as long as they don’t have to go to the store.</p>

<p>On another note, here in NJ the cherry blossoms are beautiful, we just did our landscaping this weekend and planted two kwanzi cherrys in honor of LTS and her fabulous daughter. I smile everytime I look at them:D</p>

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<p>And all this time I thought epistrophy was a woman. Sigh, am I just clueless?</p>

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<p>Hey, I’m a great fan of the female gender, so I’ll just take this as a compliment - OK?</p>

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<p>I’m also surprised that epistrophy is not a woman! Major cognitive re-shifting going on … I have to say, epistrophy, that you are a very evolved man!</p>

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<p>I’ll have to remember to point this out - my being “very evolved,” that is - to the judge in my federal conspiracy trial (now in its 10th week) the next time he snarls at me when denying one of my objections (it might have escaped his notice).</p>

<p>Sigh, so much for the image of a successful WOMAN lawyer… the dress news was fun- wish I had a D, in addition to son. How can I bring out my feminine side (if it even exists anymore) with male H, S and dog??? It was nice to know there is life outside of work and cancer.</p>

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<p>I knew epistrophy was male…not sure how or why, but there was no question in my mind. I remember thinking how great the friendships are at CC between folks of all races, ages, socio-economic background, gender, religions, etc., and how thoughtful and empathetic epistrophy has always been for LTS.</p>

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I also thought epistrophy was male. Also not sure why. I’m just grateful for the resources he manages to find!</p>

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<p>CountingDown, I, too, am grateful for the resources, as are those who lurk, some of them also have a cancer diagnosis. Did you read the story of David Gong? Incredible; I’m in my office wondering how in the world to summon the strength to walk the treadmill tonight or what excuse I can invent, and Mr. Gong is a three time national swim champion for the disabled. Just incredible. These sorts of stories bring great, great hope; and they’re delivered in the safe environment of CC - I do not have to drill past stories of dying cancer patients, grief, treatment horror stories, etc. to get to them. </p>

<p>I am not sure when I knew Epistrophy was a man - something in his phraseology that mirrors some of the language in Brave New War (Robb), or something like that. </p>

<p>Calmom, I totally hear you re price. But I love bumbling around stores with my daughter; she always sees something I missed…or maybe she’s just really, really good at selling me on buying for her. LOL. But seriously, I was trying to find a new purse prior to my trip a few weeks ago, and literally walked an entire mall without seeing anything I even slightly liked. All I wanted was a very simple, conservative black purse; no stupid stuff on it, no weird pockets, brand names displayed, or bizarre strap arrangements - just a simple, conservative black purse. And I am person who owns exactly three purses - one for biz, one for weekends, and one for black tie events. This was to be my replacement biz purse. I was really, really annoyed with myself for not being able to find something I liked out of 100 stores; finally happened upon one that I actually didn’t hate - it was $900. I didn’t buy it. Lucky for me, we went to DSW, daughter found me the perfect purse for $60, and I love it.</p>