Support for LateToSchool

<p>Janis Joplin and T.S. Eliot aren’t often mentioned in the same breath, but this last one from ADad brings to mind a favorite line from Eliot (which, in its own way, seems to echo not only Joplin but also some other things posted previously):</p>

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<p>F.O.LTS, so you did! I should have “listened” to you then; perhaps I would be a bit further ahead by now! Excellent suggestion, I will see where that goes. </p>

<p>Epistrophy, thank you…that’s how I feel when I play Riverdance on my iPod, at the gym…of course, it helps to have had the visual - then I cool it off with a bit of Bob Dylan…</p>

<p>I’m probably also the only person in the gym who listens to TransSiberian Orchestra in the middle of the summer…</p>

<p>and speaking of music, here’s more about lung cancer survivor Hubert Sumlin (#2364):</p>

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<p>[Blues</a> legend Hubert Sumlin to play 202 Market - Roanoke.com](<a href=“http://www.roanoke.com/wb/entertainment/wb/166888]Blues”>http://www.roanoke.com/wb/entertainment/wb/166888)</p>

<p>LTS – S1 listens to TSO all the time…he loves the passion! Are you back in the gym doing the treadmill again?</p>

<p>thought this was encouraging…</p>

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<p>CountingDown, I wish I could be back in the gym. I love my iPOD and my music and I love TSO. I am still having great difficulty even walking short distances, however, it is improving incrementally each day. I saw my #2 oncologist today following chemotherapy and he said I am doing incredibly wonderfully, considering what I am going through. </p>

<p>His head nurse said I look fantastic - like someone who has never been sick a day in their lives. She said looking at me no one would ever guess that I have cancer, or am in treatment. Amazing, considering how horrible I feel. I really, truly hope to be back in the gym very soon…I am very, very lucky that I have a baseline of excellent health.</p>

<p>If any young people/college students are lurking, please consider - if you aren’t already - making serious physical fitness an absolute, non-negotiable part of your life. </p>

<p>In youth I always worked out in gyms; in my 20’s I could bench press 125 pounds, squat 300, and deadlift close to 200. I am only 5’2" tall and typically weigh around 135 - but am a size 2 or 4. </p>

<p>In adulthood I worked off stress by taking long walks, and, later, spending more time in gyms, and then eventually competing in a very challenging sport. I am not any good at the sport - and I will never win at this or any other sport - I am a clumsy, disorganized sort of a klutz (the kind of person who gets confused and falls off the treadmill at the gym) - but I stay with it because of the exercise and social benefit. </p>

<p>In my entire life I have never had even a brief period go by where I have no t exercised aggressively. I even choose stairs over elevators, etc.</p>

<p>Once diagnosed with cancer, I continued my workouts, especially lower body and large muscle development. </p>

<p>I am convinced that my baseline of physical fitness - developed over years and years - is what has gotten me this far in this battle. Oh - that and all of the outstanding support, excellent medical care, and kindness of caregivers.</p>

<p>Since sooner or later everyone is probably going to face some sort of illness or physical challenge, it probably makes some sense to build up reserves while you’re healthy enough to do so…</p>

<p>Epistrophy, you’re amazing…</p>

<p>Timely, that is inspirational. I don’t know where my faith in my ability to win this battle comes from. It’s just sort of there. I continue to be frustrated though by the very slow progress in figuring out ways to help others.</p>

<p>latetoschool, with your permission, can I bookmark your post about the long-term value of exercise so I can direct those who whine about their PE requirements to it?
Thank you for checking in with another update. I’m glad to hear things are moving in the right direction. Keep kicking the &*#@% out of that beast!</p>

<p>BunsenBurner, please do. I cannot state how strongly I believe in exercise. It’s really, really important. I may have cancer, but I am very, very strong, and very fit otherwise. </p>

<p>I think one aversion some people have is if they aren’t “good” at a sport or whatever they give it up. A year ago I asked a friend of mine to enter a doubles race; she wouldn’t do it, saying we couldn’t possibly win. I was so disappointed. Of course we couldn’t win. I have no hope of winning anything, in any sport - I seriously am a nerdy klutz. I wasn’t even slightly interested in trying to win; I just wanted to play.</p>

<p>LTS, I agree about the value of keeping fit. My mom has had a long, never ending litany of challenges to her health over the past dozen or so years. She has battled scoliosis, beaten breast cancer, survived numerous heart issues, gotten over a cracked pelvis, etc. A year ago, she broke the top of her humerous. She is too thin & her heart too weak to be able to have it repaired surgically. The pain is constant. A couple weeks ago she had a small stroke. My mother has always kept herself fit, no matter what challenges she has faced, to the extent that she could exercise given the situation. Today, she has slowed considerably & it is tough on her (she still walks, but slowly & with a cane). However, the truth is that she absolutely would not be with us today if she had not been so dedicated to exercise before, during, & after her illnesses.</p>

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<p>–Richard Nelson Bolles (What Color is Your Parachute?)</p>

<p>Kelsmom I am sorry to hear about your mother, but glad she is able to pull through it. I hope she improves from the stroke. She sounds a lot like the five year survivor in Texas (he owns a ranch and breaks horses for a living) - he walked up six flights of stairs for his chemotherapy appointments rather than take the elevators. It has taken him all five of these past years to recover somewhat back to his former state of fitness, and he still isn’t quite there yet. But I do not believe he would be alive today if he had not gone into treatment in a reasonably fit condition.</p>

<p>ADad, thank you for that. Today, I had two of my caregivers tell me that I have made better people of them and they have been very enriched by this experience. I told them it was their foundation that gives me strength. No one can do this without outstanding support, of that I am certain.</p>

<p>and another (this one in New Zealand)</p>

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<p>[Golfer</a> beating the cancer odds - Local News on Stuff.co.nz](<a href=“Stuff”>Stuff)</p>

<p>Epistrophy, thank you for that; today was very hard - I received notice that three more people died, including Ernie Puckett (you posted the link a few months ago - marathon runner with lung cancer). I actually have email from Ernie on supplemental matters…The other people were two and three years out each, and i was so disappointed because I truly thought they were going to pull out and beat the odds…</p>

<p>Positive, happy news helps mitigate this stuff…</p>

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<p>–Charles Spurgeon</p>

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I have a friend, a 50 year old woman, who has muscular dystrophy. She is in an electric wheelchair and she can move her wrists and hands and she can slightly turn her neck. She had a caregiver crisis several months ago, and I helped her get ready for bed a few times. I am absolutely changed by getting to know her during that time.</p>

<p>This woman works full time. She has an education degree and works in a p.s. in the special ed dept. She can use her computer and has a cell phone velcroed to her armrest (and a bluetooth headset). She has a specially modified van that she drives (I know…that part is a little bit scary!). For several months, the van was out of commission. Because her electric wheelchair weighs 300 lbs., no one could pick her up and give her a ride. So, every morning she had a caregiver get her up at 5:30, dress her and strap her all into her chair. Then she cruised about 1/2 mile to the bus stop and took the bus (which involved changing buses), then drove her chair nearly a mile to her school. She worked all day (no lunch since there is no one to feed it to her) then did the whole bus thing to get back home. She has a live in housekeeper, thankfully, who makes the meals, does laundry, etc.</p>

<p>Okay, so she was practically super-human in my book, but that wasn’t what changed me. It was her absolute joyfulness. She would always talk about what she was thankful for. Oh, she had work problems, family problems, and stuff like everybody has, and she’d tell me about those things, but still…it was just different. Her attitude was one of being grateful for what she has.</p>

<p>She told me once that managing her life was like being CEO of a corporation, and I think she was right. There were her health/dr./insurance things, maintenence and repairs on her specialized wheelchair and van, management of a housekeeper and an ever-changing group of caregivers. And of course there was work and her 3 kids (young adults). She is divorced. Paying all those people along with living expenses on a teacher’s salary made finances plenty tight, too. She just said she was so glad she had such a good job with good benefits.</p>

<p>Speaking of kids…when you are that kind of person, you tend to raise really great kids, and she has. Recently her son, a 23 year old newlywed, told her that he and his wife are going to build a house and they want her to come live with them. They are having the house built with accommodations for her disability.</p>

<p>All that to say, LTS, I can tell you are that kind of person, too, and I am quite sure that you are changing your caregivers and probably lots of other people that you don’t even realize you are impacting. And that has value; it makes the world a better place.</p>

<p>Timely, that’s incredible. What a very strong person your friend must be. I cannot imagine - this whole experience has certainly been very educational. Thank you for sharing that.</p>

<p>and more (one of whom still smokes)</p>

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<p>[Herkimer</a> County community news - Utica, NY 13501 - The Observer-Dispatch](<a href=“http://www.uticaod.com/news/x222996362/Herkimer-County-community-news]Herkimer”>http://www.uticaod.com/news/x222996362/Herkimer-County-community-news)</p>

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<p>[The</a> Derrick](<a href=“http://www.thederrick.com/stories/06232008-1004.shtml]The”>http://www.thederrick.com/stories/06232008-1004.shtml)</p>

<p>Smoking. Ugh.</p>

<p>But I came here to post a great quote that reminded me of lts and others who give life their All. It’s from the late writer Hunter S. Thompson:</p>

<p>“Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out and loudly proclaiming ‘Wow! What a Ride!’”</p>

<p>:)</p>

<p>The five year survivor is perpetually shocked by lung cancer patients who continue to smoke. He won’t even talk to such people. </p>

<p>It’s impossible to stop big tobacco, and, people are going to do what they’re going to do. I am still stopping people and asking them to not smoke, but not as aggressively as I was before, mostly because I don’t believe anyone really is influenced by these interactions. I think they feel really, really bad when they’re talking to me, but then they go home and keep right on puffing.</p>

<p>I think the bigger issue is the environment, what we’re doing to it, and all of the factors that go into the causation of illnesses - all cancers and serious diseases…</p>

<p>Edited to add: I read somewhere - JYM626, HAPPY BIRTHDAY :)</p>