Support for LateToSchool

<p>Timely, thank you for that story, that is sweet. </p>

<p>2boysinma, thank you for your post, I appreciate it. I will write a lettter to the newly minted exec (the one from WSJ) of the Washington Post and copy the hospital board chair as soon as I get to a place where I am reasonably recovered. </p>

<p>Mominva, at the moment, I am too sick to make it into my office even. I have to be helped into bed. My oncologist was so concerned that he spent 15 minutes of his own personal time inserting an IV in me today - I am so dehydrated, there are no available veins, and/or the veins located quickly collapse. So he spent his own time getting an IV into me (his nurses tried, and couldn’t), getting fluid in, and, tonight, daughter and I are working on this and my immediate project is to get down a bottle of Gatoraide.</p>

<p>He also spent over 30 minutes going through all of my meds. My daughter insisted - against my direct instructions - on bringing this big bag of meds in their original containers to today’s appointment. Includes everything I’m on plus everything new I was prescribed at discharge. Very good thing she knows when to ignore me and follow her own head and that she is not the least bit afraid to totally disregard me. He sorted out all the horrible mess and got the stupid drugs down to a maneagable level. One thing we learned, I should have NEVER been told to take a steroid, three painkillers, a stomach drug, and some other pill all at the same time. No wonder I am throwing up the drugs. Anyway, I wonder if you can imagine that I must have thrown something like $1,000 worth of meds in the trash (and I was thrilled to be doing it). As of now there is one drug on my nightstand, not 20 like last night - for which I am very grateful. </p>

<p>Things will get better. As ADad provided, fall down seven times, stand up eight.</p>

<p>wow, LTS, brava to your DD! And 3 cheers for empty nightstands! Wishing you humorous thoughts and a better day!</p>

<p>LTS: </p>

<p>It’s great that you’ve reduced the number of drugs you’re taking, There’s this 4-year old on chemo whose aunt tells me has to take something like 20. I’ll talk to the aunt and find out whether some can be discarded as well.</p>

<p>Is the dehydration caused by your finally emptying your insides? I’ve found that the trick is to sip a very little at first and increase very slowly.</p>

<p>Your DD is loving and wise. Great combination!</p>

<p>Brava for LTS’s daughter. </p>

<p>::CC friends make a virtual circle around her sending strength and love should she ever need either replenished::</p>

<p>Here’s to a better day LTS.</p>

<p>and another (living with lung cancer)</p>

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<p>(P.S. to LTS: In the department of unsolicited advice [a department that, as you may have noticed, pops up here, oh, every now and then], I hope that what you call your oncologist’s “manageable level” of meds is the one you’re intending to follow - not something more Spartan [even if the latter were to leave your nightstand even freer]. Meds aren’t the enemy; mismanagement is. [If anything, meds, properly administered, can be a godsend.] When it comes to this aspect of your care, the last thing you’d want, I would think, would be to try to be your own doctor.)</p>

<p>I wonder how many patients, and especially older ones, are taking too many drugs or the wrong combinations. I remember the dining room table at my parents’ a few years ago where my dad’s pills were all arrayed. So glad you got some clarity on that. Wishing a good day to you and your daughter!</p>

<p>LTS, glad that your medications were straightened out.</p>

<p>dbwes, my MIL went into a coma like state a month ago. It was caused by a prescribed medication. It took the docs several days to figure it out. They put her on a palliative care floor, thinking that she had a major stroke. The stroke did not show up on an MRI or CAT scan, but they still insisted that she had a stroke. It was not until she began to get better, that one doctor decided to dig into her medical records. She was prescribed a drug that she should not have been prescribed 10 days before ending up in an ER.</p>

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We called this taking “bird sips” when S was young. Little tiny sips of liquid, first several minutes apart, then if tolerated, closer together. We use the term still.</p>

<p>Hang in there, Late To School. We have your back.</p>

<p>“When the first Superman movie came out, I gave dozens of interviews to promote it. The most frequent question was: What is a hero? My answer was that a hero is someone who commits a courageous action without considering the consequences. Now my definition is completely different. I think a hero is an ordinary individual who finds the strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles. They are the real heroes, and so are the families and friends who have stood by them.” Christopher Reeve</p>

<p>LTS=Hero</p>

<p>When my FIL started having medications prescribed by more than one doc, his PCP told us to always bring either the med bottles or a list with all info (name, dosage, prescribing doc) to every visit. I think this is a good idea for anyone on meds. My SIL is a Director of Nursing and loves to get positive feedback on her nurses.</p>

<p>Wishing you a good today and a better tomorrow.</p>

<p>LTS… I recentlly came home from the hospital with IV antibiotics that were running 24 hrs a day for two weeks. I had a small pack that contained a pump and the IV fluid that ran into a pic line in my arm. It worked very well and gave me the independence to go out when I wanted. It was easy to change the IV bag once a day and allowed me to be out of the hospital. I carried the pump in a large purse when I went out and the tubing ran up my sleeve and into my arm. Very discreet. Anyway this is pretty new and some Dr.'s are unaware of it. Also my arms had been so abused with IV’s and blood work needles and such the pic line was a very nice addition. No more need to find a vein. They can use a pic line to take blood too. Just for your info.in case it ever comes up. It’s used for any IV fluids. It was all run by a nursing unit that visits homes. It was great.I actually carried it around the house while I did chores.</p>

<p>Glad you are home.</p>

<p>Like mother, like daughter. Ya done good, LTS!</p>

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<p>–Margaret Halsey, No Laughing Matter</p>

<p>Hope your feeling better, Sax.</p>

<p>Thinking of you as always, LTS. I hope this is a good day… You seem to be moving in the right direction.</p>

<p>Just got back from a week of vacation which was to celebrate finishing chemo and radiation. First thing I did was catch up on LTS. My husband was a little irritated as he was cooking dinner and unpacking but I persevered and read the 10 pages I had missed. It is very difficult to explain LTS to someone else and how important she is to me.<br>
I started reading before my own cancer diagnosis and in those first awful days I used LTS as an inspiration as I faced treatment.
I am now down to 5 pills per day after a high of 40!
It just seems that the only way doctors can deal with new symptoms is to give a new med which has its own side effects and results in more meds.
My oncologist is a very nice but very serious fellow, my goal each visit was to make him laugh. I can’t imagine being in that field of work.
Prayers as always</p>

<p>(Oh my goodness, I can’t believe I mixed up “your” and “you’re” in my last post. I feel so ashamed.)</p>

<p>Congratulations Keymom! Wishing you all the best.</p>

<p>Keymom: Congratulations! I hope you had a great vacation.</p>

<p>Keymom, many congratulations. I am so happy you are through treatment. I may be coming back to pick your brain later, for vacation ideas. You know, the five year survivor in Texas did the EXACT same thing with his oncologist - each visit, he made it a point to try to find some way to make his doctor laugh. He was concerned that the doctor’s days were spent telling people they were going to die of their disease, punctuated with few pleasurable moments.</p>

<p>Epistrophy, there is no way that any advice from you could ever be “unsolicited”. I have begged you to remain here through serious judicial proceedings, your vacation and family time, etc. That’s because we (I think I can be presumptuous here and speak for the general CC community) are as interested in your original thoughts as we are in the gold you harvest out of the cached <a href=“http://www…%5B/url%5D”>www…</a>.</p>