Support for LateToSchool

<p>I am sorry if this is not the place to bring this up, but I live in an area where radon levels are extremely high. From my VERY limited research/knowledge, radon gases are the second cause of lung cancer. </p>

<p>I guess I’m talking about it because after reading about LTS’s experience (lung cancer in a nonsmoker) these last several weeks, I thought it might be smart to have our home tested for it.</p>

<p>also, I am sorry if this has already been mentioned…this is a very long thread!!</p>

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<p>LTS: Here’s just one example of someone who - as will be the case with you one day - has made the transition from beating cancer herself to providing support to others who are fighting their own battles with this disease:</p>

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<p>[Amanda</a> Carter About Me](<a href=“http://www.amandacarter.com/about]Amanda”>http://www.amandacarter.com/about)</p>

<p>[Amanda</a> Carter](<a href=“http://www.amandacarter.com/]Amanda”>http://www.amandacarter.com/)</p>

<p><a href=“http://www.amandacarter.com/pics/journal1.jpg[/url]”>http://www.amandacarter.com/pics/journal1.jpg&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

<p>LTS:</p>

<p>I’m sorry to read that you have been feeling poorly. I know the feeling of being physically weak but mentally alert and perhaps overstimulated.We had just moved into our house three weeks earlier when I had to have surgery. I decided to use my recovery time to design my new kitchen. The first architect I interviewed (from the hospital bed we had rented) thought I was nuts. He was not hired. But while my body was weak, my head was teeming with ideas. I hope you can put this time to good use, but please don’t overdo it!</p>

<p>marite: You are another marvel! LTS: I know that feeling; the mind is over-stimulated and the body exhausted. I really like your choice of the word goofy to describe it.</p>

<p>Thinking of you.</p>

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<p>[National</a> Lung Cancer partnership](<a href=“http://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2008-02/nlcp-nlc022008.php]National”>http://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2008-02/nlcp-nlc022008.php)</p>

<p>[Lung</a> Cancer Information - National Lung Cancer Partnership. Women. Research. Change.](<a href=“http://www.NationalLungCancerPartnership.org%5DLung”>http://www.NationalLungCancerPartnership.org)</p>

<p>LTS,
My experience has been (personally and based on what others on my cancer listserves have reported) is that some insurance companies will cover some portion of trial expenses. My insurance will cover the trial protocols and testing, but leaves the medication expense to the trial. It also covers a portion of travel expense if required. I’ve heard of folks whose coverage gets them nothing; others report that their insurance pays every penny.</p>

<p>If I switch from Gleevec to the new Novartis drug (nilotinib), though, I can get the drug via the trials for free but have to go through various testing protocols (which my insurance will cover) in order to be accepted to the trial and qualify for the meds.</p>

<p>I am thankful every day that my benefits administration experience and infertility history have given me the skills to navigate this morass.</p>

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<p>[Science</a> is winning the battle against women’s biggest fear - Scotsman.com News](<a href=“http://news.scotsman.com/scotland/Science-is-winning-the-battle.3799689.jp]Science”>http://news.scotsman.com/scotland/Science-is-winning-the-battle.3799689.jp)</p>

<p>Epistrophy, thank you for the links, especially the news about the National Lung Cancer Partnership. Perhaps that will be the place to focus resources once I can get to and hold remission. </p>

<p>Countingdown, I’m with you; however, I don’t spend any time considering what may or may not be covered - I just throw money at it. Of course, most people cannot do that; beyond the insurance coverage question, lung cancer is financially disastrous to most people, even if they manage to survive it. </p>

<p>I have been speaking a lot lately with the five year survivor in Texas; he makes his living breaking horses and doing whatever it is ranchers do with horses, livestock, etc. His wife works from their home for a traditional employer, and she also helps with the ranch. He also has military benefits, and I believe a small military pension. He is struggling greatly financially - one, he is suffering some late effects from the aggressive radiation and chemotherapy treatment; two, his business reputation is harmed by the lung cancer. He is having to fight pretty hard to hold onto his professional relationships and keep them productive. On top of that, because of some of the late effects, he tells me he has to rest every three or four days. He is only in his early 50’s…anyway, he is considering not for the first time selling the ranch. I sincerely hope he does not do so, as I believe his abililty to govern the ranch is a large part of why he continues to survive. He will never be able to hold a traditional job, ever again, at least not through a private employer - no one is going to hire someone with a history of lung cancer when there are other candidates available who do not have a cancer history…</p>

<p>Marite, it is supposed to rain in Washington all day tomorrow, so, I have scheduled the entire day and night for mandatory sleep!</p>

<p>Glad to hear that. Sleep well.</p>

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<p>[NCCS</a> Dan Waeger, stage IV lung cancer survivor](<a href=“http://www.canceradvocacy.org/community/survivor-profiles/dan-waeger-stage-iv-lung.html]NCCS”>http://www.canceradvocacy.org/community/survivor-profiles/dan-waeger-stage-iv-lung.html)</p>

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<p>[UCSF</a> Today - Lung Cancer Survivors Find Reason for Hope](<a href=“http://pub.ucsf.edu/today/cache/news/200612085.html]UCSF”>http://pub.ucsf.edu/today/cache/news/200612085.html)</p>

<p>"Natmicstef, one of the issues is that many of us with lung cancer don’t tell anyone. Not under any cicumstances. One of the very first things I did in the hospital, hours after diagnosis, was organize the business people and we made decisions on who would be told (and what were the legal and ethical implications etc.). Bottom line, you can count on one hand the number of people in my world who know I have lung cancer. "</p>

<p>You might want to rethink this. I haven’t posted before on your thread because the issue is painful because one of my best friends (a woman who never smoked, incidentally) was diagnosed with lung cancer almost 3 years ago.</p>

<p>She is still alive, thanks to an amazing amount of guts (Her mom survived Aushwitz, her dad survived a Russian prison camp), a very supportive husband, excellent insurance, and the fact that both of them are very proactive about her treatment. When the cancer was discovered, it was inoperable. It also had already spread to her liver. Since then, it spread to her brain. </p>

<p>She told her friends, family, and associates from just about the minute that she was diagnosed, and has gotten an enormous amount of support. </p>

<p>I think that she would have gotten the support even if she had been a smoker. What I found helpful about how she handled things is that she has been very honest, which has made it easier for me to know how to respond. Shortly after her diagnosis, we even met for dinner along with my younger S, who then was only 17. She lives out of town and hadn’t seen him for about 3 years. What was beautiful was that we didn’t have to pussyfoot around her illness. She straightforwardly talked about her hopes and fears and that allowed us to be open with her, too. </p>

<p>This was my first time being with anyone who had just been diagnosed with cancer, so her openness helped me a lot because I wanted to do the right thing, but didn’t know how.</p>

<p>Last Thurs., friends organized a prayer/meditation/reiki experience in which people across the country did their spiritual technique of choice on my friend’s behalf. I participated in it and could literally feel the vibrations even though I was doing this all by myself.</p>

<p>Throughout her illness, congregations at various places of worship throughout the country have been praying for my friend, and she feels this has made a difference.</p>

<p>There’s a wonderful you tube by a woman whom I know who has colon cancer. Since CC doesn’t allow you tube links, the way to find it is to Google “Anne Rudloe” and “You tube”. In part of the video, she talks about how neighbors whose religious orientation is very different from hers, have been very supportive to her.</p>

<p>I notice that you live in Miami. Anne is a marine biologist in Panacea, Fl. and is very easy to connect with even if you don’t know her.</p>

<p>The exact name of the you tube video that I mentioned is, “Anne Rudloe Speaks.”</p>

<p>LTS,
I am just back from a CC “meet-up” in NYC. There were a dozen CC posters in attendance, and we wanted you to know that we took time out to salute you with a toast. “To your good health!” We “clinked” our glasses of sprite, diet coke, water, seltzer and regular coke. ;)</p>

<p>Northstarmom, I too had the experience with a friend/colleague with whom our friendship grew much deeper after knowing his diagnosis, and I sat alone with him at the end. That said, the decision of when to inform others is necessarily a personal one, irrespective of the rationale behind the decision process.</p>

<p>momof3-
^^^… and clinked our coffee cups too, to LTS :)</p>

<p>padad, I have had a similar experience sitting alone with a friend, long after her diagnosis but not very long after she realized she was not going to win her battle. It was not at the very end, as we lived 3000 miles apart, but it was in the last two weeks. It was an experience where she was able to impart to me some of the insights and wisdom that had become hers. One of the most beautiful times I have ever spent.</p>

<p>Like you, I don’t think that means that LTS should or shouldn’t inform others. Just that the informing can, in fact, be a gift to all.</p>

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<p>[Sign</a> Up](<a href=“That's cancer veteran, conqueror or activist to you”>That's cancer veteran, conqueror or activist to you)</p>

<p>(P.S. to LTS: I’m about to start a 2-3 month federal conspiracy trial, so if my appearances on this thread become a bit less frequent, that will be why.)</p>

<p>LTS: Mandatory sleep seems like a great repairing lease. Put on some soothing music and sleep well.</p>