I think Marist is very well known for it’s support. Hofstra as well although many say it’s a suitcase school. It has the PALS program. Adelphi also shows up on many lists.
I think if you have concerns, you need to talk to the schools - and not ED.
Take the time to get to know the schools. Ask to speak to other students taking advantages of the supports. Visit the offices and sit down with the staff or a staff member.
These are all schools that need kids far more than the kids need them. In other words, they’re accepting tons of kids outside of ED and don’t have great yields - so if ED is for an edge, you likely don’t need it. Dickinson, for example, admits over 3K, less than 10% of which were admitted through ED (and that includes hooked students).
So I’d suggest to do your homework and not rush.
Good luck.