<p>What a very thoughtful and truthful response! I was thrilled when my daughter was accepted to Haverford and remain thrilled because it seems like such a good fit for her. Truthfully, it was her first choice. She really responded to the friendly/low key vibe and is a natural for going to a school that takes its honor code so seriously. I think my sadness derives from reading the snooty “Swarthmore is just so clearly superior and Haverford is comparatively second rate” comments. It makes me wonder if she’s going to be encountering it at Haverford since the two schools are so close to each other.
You know what though, your message is right-on and I thank you. There’s wisdom to your words and it will help me put this whole matter into perspective.</p>