The lesson here may be that hiring a BSMD-specific counselor is overkill and saddles you with people who are in the business of monetizing young people’s ambition.
Perhaps best to work with a general college counselor who is knowledgeable about premed. You can’t put all of your eggs in the BSMD basket anyway, and letting someone negate the value of your commitments and passions and tell you to re-brand your entire life, based on a myopic BSMD lens, is folly.