<p>Have had our kids figure out their own schedules since middle school–give them suggestions IF we’re asked. Generally we find out what they’ve registered for when we go to open house or when they’re ill & have needed to pick up homework. In college, have mostly been hands off as well & have not been disappointed.</p>
<p>There are a few privates I’ve heard of that will pay for your kid’s 5th year if the kiddo doesn’t graduate in 4 years. Architecture typically takes 5 years–kids we know who got merit awards have them for all 5 years of the program.</p>
<p>I’m glad we had our kiddos figure out their own schedules from middle school (where stakes were pretty low); they were quite used to it by HS and very able to plan their own schedules for college.</p>