I would not plan my life around a girlfiend/boyfriend at this point.
There are two scenarios:
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You are meant to be. This is the love of your life. If so, you can keep in touch via facetime and skype. You will both expand your worlds and share it with each other. You will visit each others during break. When you graduate you will get back together and plan your life.
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You are not meant to be. You change your college, go home, and then maybe she goes to another college? Breaks up with you? ANd then you are stuck at a CC asking yourself what you have done.
Think about why you applied to and accepted admittance to this college.
Go to talk to the Counseling center…I agree that you are using the GF as a crutch.
Are you homesick? That will be over soon
Are you trying to make friends or avoiding it?
I can tell you two stories:
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Xavier was the smartest kid in the class. He was accepted to Oxford. But his girlfriend wasn’t. So he went to the much lower ranked college that she went to. They broke up. He did okay because he is really smart…but how would he have done with an oxford background?
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Cathy started at Catholic U. But her boyfriend went to SUNY Buffalo. She transferred to SUNY Buffalo. They broke up. SHe had to stay in Buffalo.
I know many more stories of breaking up…not sure if I know any of moving and then staying together.
Is your GF in HS? What if she graduates and goes somewhere else?
Also ask yourself why everything was rosy over the summer? Because both of you had no responsibilities. Once you are back in school you both will have work to do. She will want to go to the homecoming dance and prom…do you want to do that? Is she involved in Band and then not available on the weekends bcause she is busy?