<p>we are having an effect. feeling warped donny. gonna look for your bride??? lol. watch sex and the city movie together. on a side note when is that coming out?</p>
<p>and earil is right ive had like 4 nicknames at once.</p>
<p>Marriage is a legal agreement. If you don’t enter said agreement with a level head and a sense of reality, your marriage will most likely fail. It’s as simple as that. Before people get married, they need to talk about things like finances. Marriage isn’t just love, it’s a lifestyle. It’s living together and working together and sharing with each other. It’s an agreement, and before entering such an important agreement, one should always take precautions.</p>
<p>and a good debater can work both sides.</p>
<p>Hi, I’m Donny, and I want to talk to you today about love. Wait, don’t close the door!</p>
<p>When I said sensible, I meant pragmatic. Love ain’t practical. Also, I despise how Hollywood feels the need to put a romance story in a movie, even if the movie doesn’t need it. Action movies come to mind.</p>
<p>I’m against marriage, I thought I said that? I’m just trying to argue against pre-nups in relation to marriage.</p>
<p>I don’t need to marry a girl to prove love. Nothing changes once you say, “I do.”</p>
<p>Don Juan preaching about love…interesting…</p>
<p>lol why cant love be practical. if after the initial i love you so much i want your cold period you gotta look at that person til you kick the bucket. there’s got to be something Really there.</p>
<p>wink: it fits the name perfectly.</p>
<p>Mr. and Mrs. Smith did.</p>
<p>Ish.</p>
<p>In action movies, that’s mostly for the sex though, to doubly attract guys with partial nudity AND violence!</p>
<p>One shouldn’t take precautions against their wife/husband! It’s the one and only person you trust like you trust yourself and know like you know yourself. If you can’t fulfill these requirements, don’t marry him/her.</p>
<p>yup the bond movies.</p>
<p>My point is that when (if) I get married, I will have a pre-nup because it makes sense. And because I am frigid. Just because you trust someone doesn’t mean that they deserve that trust. And I definitely don’t trust my heart. Marriage is matter of both the head and the heart, not just one or the other.</p>
<p>those are some lofty goals my friend. youve been drinking straight from the hollywood kool-aid. cuz donny i dont trust my self more than i can throw myself. and im just finding me.
and even after like decades there still might be something you dont know about someone. its sort of a mystery.
the heart can def work against you. and i dont think youll hate people forever wink</p>
<p>If only people who really, truly loved each other without fail or breach of trust married each other Donny, we wouldn’t need prenups. This doesn’t happen at all. Even if people do love each other, events can drive wedges between them, like the death of a child or some other situation. It doesn’t hurt to be prepared for all eventualities, no matter how removed and far away we’d like them to be.</p>
<p>How do you trust yourself when you don’t even necessarily know who you are? How many people have “fallen in love” only fall /apart/ (financially and emotionally) when the marriage ends?</p>
<p>EDIT: Earil brings up a good point. Sometimes traumas/emotional situations affect couples. While they may love each other, they may not be a point where they can be together.</p>
<p>i just want someone i can grow old and fart with. and that i wont completely hate and resent when im taking that last breath.</p>
<p>What we’re really arguing about is what love is. Is it a give-take relationship between two down-to-earth people, or is it the reciprocated investment of two people in each other no matter what the obstacle?</p>
<p>“i just want someone i can grow old and fart with. and that i wont completely hate and resent when im taking that last breath.”</p>
<p>I agree!</p>
<p>If anyone’s interested in another debate (next time) how about optimism vs. pessimism?</p>
<p>I think it’s a bad idea. It’ll never work, frigid. Just give up.</p>
<p>Do none of you robots know what love is!? If our child died, it shouldn’t divide us, we should find solace in each other, taking on the situation together.</p>
<p>why cant it be both hudson? i dont see the difference between the two options.
a give-take relationship of two people working together to face any obstacle.</p>