<p>I am originally from NJ, but currently live in rural NC. Boy is used a lot towards younger generations, so at first I was going to agree and say it is a southern thing…only when I found out that Davis is only 50 did I feel differently, afterall, I would give Byrd a pass or any of the other 90 yr olds! It is a southern thing, not a racial thing to call someone younger by many years boy. If Davis was Byrd’s age he would be his grandson, thus a boy!</p>
<p>What would have been funny is if he called him “SUG” Wherever you go, everyone is called Sug…short for sugar! First time I heard it I was dumbfounded, only after the millionth time I asked a southerner what SUG meant and she said Sugar, dear what did you think it meant :D</p>
<p>Well, Bryd was a Klansman. I’m sure boy is a part of his everyday vocabulary & its meaning to him has nothing to do with age & everything to do with race.</p>
<p>Although I currently live in the northeast, I was born and raised in the deep south and went on to live many years of my married life there. As far as I’m concerned, using the term “boy” when describing an African-American man is derogatory AND racist.</p>