The Atlantic - Graduate School Can Have Terrible Effects on People's Mental Health

My SO and I got our PhDs at the same time. It was nice to have a source of support, yes, but writing our dissertations at the same time nearly sank our relationship. It’s an extremely stressful experience, and we were both perpetually on edge for that long, long year we were finishing our dissertations and going on the job market. We made it through, but I don’t miss grad school at all.

Yep. The mental health issues that grad students struggle with are no secret. Unfortunately, grad students often fear being stigmatized for going to counseling or admitting to struggling with depression. One woman in my cohort was encouraged (read: pushed) to take a year off when she told her advisor that she’d been going to counseling for mental health, which caused at least a couple others to stop going to counseling out of fear their advisors would do the same. Hardly the healthiest environment, needless to say.