I can grab hold of this:
…do look for what your own targets ‘look for’ or their advice. If it’s holistic, grasp that it’s more than stats and titles.
And remember, you choose your targets, they choose whom to admit."
I cannot imagine focusing on this insane process before well into the high school career, allowing a kid to develop into who they are, allowing me (the parent) to gauge their pulse. Then easing into the advice in the quote above.
However, I understand if many people do it differently, because the plan is to get * there, * wherever that place is for their child, or their dream for their child.
So much to do and know, and find out you didn’t do because you didn’t know…