Your personal opinion on that is not necessarily shared by most Muslim women I’ve known who’ve donned it for their own personal religious beliefs.
This includes several HS classmates who have gone on to attend some of the most respectable/elite colleges…including Wellesley and into the professional world…including many which were/are still male dominated.
What you’re advocating would also be considered a form of “forced assimilationism” into upper/upper-middle class White mainly Protestant values/norms which was once popular in mainstream US values before the Civil Rights and movements of the '50s and '60s eventually caused such a mentality to be rejected as highly repressive and marginalizing of immigrants and American subcultures which don’t accord with such dominant elite supported values/norms.
I myself was surprised to still encounter a bit of this in a rural Midwest area when someone with that mentality openly objected to my using Mandarin to speak with some international students from China. Wouldn’t surprise me if the jerk who did so is now a supporter of a certain blowhard presidential candidate who has ran quite a bombastic campaign railing against whatever “minority to be hated du jour” happens to be convenient.
I find it interesting you’re refusing to acknowledge how you’re advocating a policy which marginalizes racial/religious minorities who are practicing their religious convictions. Especially one which has recently been heavily demonized by heated bigoted rhetoric by certain demagogue politicians such as a certain presidential candidate.
IMO…so long as the student is the one who is requesting the religious accommodation and not the state-educational institution and the institution hasn’t proven that accommodation is “unreasonable” according to the established legal standard set by prior court rulings, her motivations/“agenda” is irrelevant.
Also, making such assumptions and thus, casting aspersions about the accommodation seeker’s motives says much more about the personal biases/prejudices and thus, dubious motivations/character of those making such assumptions.