Thank you for the links and comments.
If Goodreads had categories for ratings
2/3 stars for plot - character development
4 stars for readability and enjoyment
5 stars for book you will think about
Some observations-
It’s so enriching when many of you have personal experience you share about details in the book as we read,
Obviously, Daniel’s chapter stuck out to some of you.
For me, ( perhaps I projected my feelings about the Mideast mess) I thought he was in a man in existential conflict about sending young Americans into unjustified war.
Benjamin certainly placed her characters in some highly charged events of recent decades -
Aids epidemic (interesting her mother was in gay relationship, not her father. I wonder how the gay community reacted to her depiction of the stereotype of gay men)
Iraq/ Afghanistan war - a physician trained to heal people, had such power over young healthy men’s lives
The suicide / magician Klara- this one was strange - in real life Benjamin’s sister is a snake charmer ?
The pharmaceutical animal research industry a section I Hated reading- I’m weak and don’t like thinking about animal research or the food industry, I should be a vegetarian.
Re: Harlow - I vividly remember the video clips we saw during child development classes in college of the terrified, shivering, tortured baby monkeys, and those images are permanently imprinted in my memory. I couldn’t open your links @mary13
Would I want to know the date of my death- no
I was at an Alzheimer’s conference a few years ago and the expert speaker was asked if he would want to know if he would likely develop dementia / Alzheimer’s and he answered a resounding “no”
Would I want to know "how"I would die ( not necessarily when ) - mmmmmmm maybe, especially with the epidemic of dementias
Would you want to know when a family member or loved one would die.
In my 89 year old mother’s case- I might have more patience now when she frustrates me, so I can see that info might be good to know ?
I have been debating whether to recommend this book to some friends and based on @ignatius and others I will now .