Oh BrotherâŠ
Now I remember why I quit CC two years agoâŠsoâŠmuchâŠjudgement
I didnât think when I originally posted that I would need to provide transcripts of my 45 minute conversation with this gal but apparently I do.
We were at this museum with a lot of family members who purchased a lot of stuff and were have the items shipped all over the country both for themselves and for gifts. This young lady spent about 45 minutes with us which is how this whole conversation started and I got to speak with her at length.
She finished her masters last year. She is 25, single, no children, trying to gain full time employment in her field. Why would anyone jump to the conclusion that she may have mental health or addiction problems? Good lord, she majored in something with not tons of available positions and doesnât pay well. She sent many many resumes before graduating and got nothing, so she took this job. She has continued to apply, but the Available jobs have been few and far between. She said that her hiring manager told her that they receive hundreds of resumes for every opening and applicants have much more experience than her or are in many cases overqualified.
Museum studies jobs must be a sellers market here.
I assure you I donât know ANYTHING about this major and job market here in Boston besides what she told me.
She is bummed that she canât work in her field in a job that pays a living wage. She was a super cute girl with a bubbly personality and said she and a few friends are considering moving to a lower COL area and to a warmer climate. She said something to the effect of âif Iâm going to be poor I might as well be in a bikiniâ. I donât remember her exact words, but she had a great attitude and was trying to figure out her next steps.
@blossom
Your comments to me were way out of line. You donât know me or what my kids have gone through in their life. I have a kid with brain damage from Lyme disease who has had an IEP since he was 3. This is the first year his only accommodation is extended test time.i just posted about this a couple of days ago. You tell me Iâm judging?
Iâm sort of kicking myself for even responding to these hateful comments. I stand by what I said I personally would not allow my kids to major in something where the job prospects are what this girl is facing. I didnât tell other people not to major in it and I didnât tell anyone else that my opinion is the only opinion. Itâs just what my family would do. Are we not allowed to have a difference of opinion on here?
Thank you to all of the very kind CCâers who responded to my other post I made this week asking for help with my S22âs college search. You all exemplify what this site should be about.
And with thatâŠ, my next hiatus will be much longer than 2 years.