<p>SealDad,
It is unfortunate that these threads seem to get hijacked by the bitterness of which you speak. First one, then another, and sometimes even another seem intent on asserting their knowledge about everything over everybody. From what I read, it is a problem in all sorts of threaded discussions. Internet anonymity breeds careless, thoughtless, tongues [or fingertips as the case may be.</p>
<p>Your [and many others have already figured this out] best bet is to just ignore the ignorance. Much of what is written on here is meaningless. [And just watch, proving up the maxim that if a shoe fits, those upon which it fits will certainly choose to wear it, see who assumes we are speaking of him or her!]</p>